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Today reading this I caught myself thinking, I wish Andrew's writing were more "conversational" rather than "instructive". I hope this makes sense to you.

I think what it means is that you write with a lot of authority and logic. It's great writing, don't get me wrong. I guess I want you to write with a touch of vulnerability at times. That would make you more "human", more on the same page with us, "mere mortals". I hope you get what I mean. Do you have any advice against getting quickly emotionally involved?

I only date men I can imagine marrying, at least as much as you can know early on - guys I'm really attracted to, who seems serious and genuinely interested in me. However it happens very rarely that a guy ticks all these boxes. I'm seeing one right now who's perhaps the first one who appears to be perfect for me.

Before that, I've been in love and heartbroken once before. It took me about 6 months of no contact to get over it and get back on the market. I read your blog and believe I follow the filtering advice thoroughly sometimes obsessively.

I get plenty attention, so I have no problem with the attractiveness part. When I do meet a perfect guy - like now - I find myself deeply emotionally involved. We've had sex at this point, but I was quite nervous and hung up also before we did it. I don't show this in any way, but it's an inconvenience for me personally. There is always a chance it won't work out, and I know I am not mentally prepared for it, no matter how much I try. It's caused by two things; my feelings for him and secondly - the knowledge that there are quite few men out there who are potentially right for me high quality, good husbands and fathers, mutual strong attraction, in my geographical area etc.

I think the knowledge of this may even result in me being more dependent on his affection for me than I actually am. At least men entertain themselves with flings and casual sex in between looking for 'the one'. Knowing that if this doesn't work out, it may take a year before I meet a new great guy or even will have great sex again, is really bothering me. Do you have any advice - other than filtering out bad ones and postponing sex - of how you stay emotionally "unavailable"?

That is a serious question, and one I really would need to think about more. I also think it is significantly outside the scope of the kind of advice I am "qualified" to give, seeing as my only claim is to have dated a lot of women. So I offer the following only with those caveats. I am not sure you should remain "emotionally unavailable. This is what I meant by "emotional risk" in the post.

You have to take these risks, but they should be ones that you acknowledge and take willingly, and only with men who you trust. For example, I am assuming this guy is already your boyfriend. That is a good sign from him that he is invested in you he is also taking some risk here. If not, you need to AT LEAST get to that point before completely "letting go" emotionally with him.

In fact, you should probably wait until he proposes before completely letting go. You let go a little when you start dating, a little more when you become exclusive, a little more as time progresses, etc. It isn't a binary phenomenon. Look for signs of commitment from him to queue each of these steps in the process. Those signs could be him saying he loves you, or just increased intimacy, but just be a little cautious each time you find yourself getting invested further. Keep in mind that if you are too cautious you risk turning him away.

He is looking for these signs from you too, in order to gauge how invested he should be in the relationship or he should be anyway Sensible advice, Andrew. One of the most memorable and honest things a man has ever said to me was that he didn't expect to fall in love with me. I told him that it was simply right timing and because he was open and ready to fall in love.

In other words, you have to open yourself if you expect someone else to do the same. As Andrew said, it's a risk for both and a bit of push and pull to find that balance as you discover one another. I wouldn't start a relationship with someone expecting it to fail, but neither should you stay with someone you can't see yourself being with long-term.

All the while, be aware it sometimes takes anywhere to 1 date to 1 year before you should know if the relationship is heading the direction you want it to. great post! so if you are dating a new guy, how do you bring up the issue of marriage without sounding desperate? It depends on a lot of factors - age, race, religion, personalitites, etc. but if you are anything like a normal American young adult, I'd wait until at least 6 months, if not more.

I have a post in the works about men and marriage. I'd say time is really not what you should be concerned about. It's the person and the relationship that varies, but it should progress naturally at its own pace and THAT should be your cue.

A close friend of mine 12 years my senior and happily married, said that she once received advice about marriage that can also be applied to dating: marriage happens when it is the next most natural next step.

In other words, your lives have become so intertwined that it makes sense to do so. I sort of liken it to the early stages of dating: boy thinks girl is hot and all that jazz, girl likes boy and gives him a chance, boy and girl discover that the more time they spend together, the more they like each other, boy and girl exclusive because they are each other's 1 choice.

Of course, this doesn't mean women can't do anything to encourage indirectly, quite the opposite actually, but overall you have to be patient, assert your own needs justifiably, expect him to respect you, and let what will happen, happen. Words may have a lot of power on our emotions in a relationship, but likewise, actions of guys can indicate a lot of their intentions before they voice it aloud.

I enjoyed and relate to this. I think exclusive dating is pointless if you are under 25 for guys and under 23 for females. By my rule, i have one more year til i put myself on the market blah! Great advice Andrew - this is so true. I've never understood the concept of dating someone long term that you couldn't imagine yourself marrying.

How do you make sure you are both on the same page without coming across as clingy? When exactly do you figure this out? There are many different signs, but too many to list here. Keep reading the blog, I've touched on them in the past and will continue to do so.

One piece of advice that applies to all of those "signs" though: actions speak louder than words. Pay attention to what he does, not what he says. Sexual past comes up naturally pretty early in relationships too. If he's pretty traditional about sex, he's probably pretty traditional about dating and marriage. Either way, it should be very clear what the desired outcome of the relationship will be early on. If it's not, I'd say he's likely not interested in marrying you.

Em, I've been thinking about this a lot lately, and your comment is so true Actually i just thought to myself that perhaps dating is also a design to ready us for serial monogamy.

and not solely for the purpose of it definitely, and having to leading to marriage but then when you weigh the cons to the pros of dating as a preparatory design, it still doesnt seem worth it given the possible emotional downfall when the relationship ends. I worry sometimes when I hear girls saying things like "I want him to be my first long-term boyfriend," It's not as worrying as the jest "I want to be his future ex-wife. I recall the author of The Starter Wife saying that she thought everybody should have a "starter marriage" as a kind of dress rehearsal for a later marriage with a second spouse.

And I believe she was serious! But she's not such a radical thinker, after all, when a lot of cohabitating couples may think of their arrangement along the same lines. Yes, men can detach themselves from emotions more easily, and handle their emotions differently than women do, but that doesn't mean they aren't there and are having an effect on a man's psyche.

This post does not jive with this: "While I do not claim my taste in women is representative of the average I do think it is reasonably close , I can tell you that my preference is a girl who has had sex with two to six guys. Ideally, one of these would have been a drunken one-night stand, and another was a guy that took her on a few dates, banged her and left her so that she has these experiences to better understand men - even if only to pass the lesson on to my daughters. The rest would hopefully have been men that she was dating seriously.

I've never understood why people need "experiences" in other relationships before they can understand or appreciate someone for who they are. If you have parents or grandparents with a healthy marriage, you don't need your own experiences to know how things should work.

I think people that jump from relationship to relationship are bad marriage prospects because they have never worked at sustaining love past the easy "infatuation" phase.

Marriage requires commitment in order to last when things get rough. The fact that some guy did the opposite of committing to his girl in his prior six relationships before settling down with me does nothing to indicate loyalty, commitment, or good judgement on his part.

I am advising girls not to WANT or TRY to have a string of relationships before settling down. Inevitably most people have one or two. I don't want to date a girl who sees me only as the next in a series of terminal relationships; but I do want a girl with a little experience. You are still contradicting yourself. A girl won't have experience unless she WANTS or TRIES to gain it. That's common sense. It sounds to me like what you're saying is that you're too lazy to guide a girl into knowing what she's doing so you prefer that she's already had her heart broken a couple of times so she knows what to expect from you and from sex.

That's a shame. Helping a girl find out what she's doing means ultimately being able to mold the sexual experience you want yourself.

I do agree with the premise of knowing what you are looking for in a mate and being honest about your intentions. You only gain relationship experience by trying its difficult to know who is really the one for long term, especially when you are young.

However if you do not gain interactions, sexual experience and everything else relationships entail then how can you know what you are looking for? Great post! However, I do disagree that men don't often get attached in relationships or do so at a slower rate to a lesser degree.

If this were true the beta male phenomena and feminization of western males would not be so derided and advised against in the male "blogosphere. The problem for a lot of us women is that this pressure to date and have boyfriends for the sake of it does not necessarily come from within, it comes from other people.

My family, and in particular my serial monogamist sister she's 27 , do believe you "need experience". When I told my her that I'd ideally want to meet someone for marriage around 25, she was shocked and said "but you don't even have any relationship experience? I'm attractive and I do date, but I've never had a serious, monogamous relationship and am now in my early twenties.

My sister is of the opinion that through dating you "get to know yourself". She's had numerous STRs, 3 LTRs, 2 of which she moved in with the guy. I don't know what kind of response I should give to people? It usually turns into a word against word thing, as in "relationship experience matters" - "no it doesn't". Do you think girls emphasize the relationship experience more than guys?

You get to know yourself through challenging yourself and self-reflection, not exclusively through dating. Your sister might be challenging herself through dating.

I think that's a risky way of doing it, but that is her decision. But to presume that you, too, need to get to know yourself that way is pretty short-sighted. I wouldn't worry too much about responding to people. If they disagree with you, so what? Thank you so much for putting this out there. Frankly, I think many women know exactly what they want from the outset but are afraid to admit it to themselves. We stumble from one man to the next in the hope that one, will be THE ONE who asks us.

It is no accident it was a religious man who who brought this to your attention. I'm so glad you were open to his questioning. If women had the integrity and courage to make it clear to men that marriage is the reason why they are dating, there would be far fewer heartaches. I am of the opinion that marriage minded men know fairly quickly whether a girl they are dating is the person they would like to be their wife and mother of their children. The purpose of dating is to see how suitable a match you both are.

Values, devotion, respect, future plans are to be considered whilst dating. It's a vetting process if you will. I am not religious myself but along with this fine blog I would encourage women who want to be married to visit wwnh. Andrew, I'm wondering why a fine fellow who dates women he thinks he could marry isn't married.

What are you looking for that you haven't found? It isn't one "thing" I haven't found yet; I just haven't found the person that I obviously want to be with for the rest of my life. May I refer your female readers to this post and comments. Particularly Ellie's comment. Did you read this? But it seems to me that Susan, like most people, believe you should aim to have relationships through your twenties which doesn't end in marriage. I'm wondering if I'm missing out learning if I don't have a LTR before marriage?

There's some point in what you're saying but personally I don't want to marry, I can't imagine myself living with the same person for the whole life. But I'm in love with a guy and just enjoying this tiime spent with him. Maybe tomorow we'll decide to break up, and I will probably fall in love with someone else. Am I a whore? I don't think so. I'm curious what exactly make men fall in love, when they rarely do. You say it takes more..

so a man has to be completely emotionally available, consider you gorgeous, have to work for you and then keep seeing you for a long time? I have observed couples where I think the man too is in love and even with women whom are nothing 'special' on an obvious level not gorgeous or very interesting. And I wonder how it's done.

If you've been in love before, can you describe what made the situation unique? The way I see it and I am open to the possibility that I am wrong , there is no formula for love like there is for physical attraction - it just happens sometimes. I'm going on a 4th date with a guy on Friday and NO I have not slept with him yet or even done anything more than a makeout session. He hasn't even spent the night.

I've already explained it takes me a while before I can let a man get intimate with me. That's just how I'm wired I can't help it. I have a natural internal shut off switch. Anyway, on our second date, he told me he's looking for a serious relationship that would lead to marriage and he wanted to make sure I was on the same page, otherwise there's no point in giving this a go. I said I was on the same page and he said "good because I think we could have something here.

Then on the Monday after our 3rd date he said we'll see each the following weekend this past weekend. I know this past weekend was a baseball game and he's a HUGE sports fan, which he already warned me about. He was txting me all week, but never mentioned the weekend and getting together again.

The friday before the games, he made a wager with me we're opposing teams. I have to cook him dinner if my team loses, which they did. After ignoring me all weekend, he txts me at 9am on Monday and wants me to make good on our wager. I have to cook dinner for him Friday night. All our dates have been Sunday or Thursday.

Now a Friday. Does it sound like this guy even though he's stayed in contact with me has no interest and is just trying to sleep with me? Our 4th date will be 12 days since we last saw each other by the time this Friday hits.

I just thought if he liked me, sports game or not, he would have wanted to see me sooner, like for the first 3 dates. I've been dating this guy since Jan. and he was datingmy so call friend wwhom we don't talk as much and now she is mad but she newver told me that they were dating Everyhing were going good for he and I until now he starting to get phone callsand texts that he don't replied back should I be afraid and leave him alone now but he claims that he love me Please Help.

This is more of a friendship issue than a relationship issue, so it is a little outside of my claimed "area of expertise. If the girl gets attached in the process, it just means the breakup will be messier. Even when a man does get emotionally invested, it usually occurs more slowly and to a lesser degree. I dated a guy in a fraternity who had a frat-boy reputation for how he was with girls. It was 6 months before I let him even touch my boobs and even longer until we had sex.

Despite that, he stuck around. Had his reputation been true, he would have moved on from me quickly and I would have been fine after a few days. Had I slept with him early on only to have him dump me shortly after, I would have been much more damaged. If a woman is dating someone with hopes to make it long-term, I think the number one most important thing she can do is let him get a little emotionally invested and taken with her personality first, before risking the emotional trauma that can easily manifest from giving up too much too soon.

I started dating a guy a while back who I took time getting to know before sex. I had planned on waiting longer however he threw me every line under the sun to have his way that eventually I gave in. I thought he genuinely cared about me, I thought there was an emotional investment on his part because he told me and to an extent showed me that there was.

Afterwards, the change was subtle at first but there was a change and before I knew it he began the slow fade. He had an extensive past with women before me so perhaps he was disappointed but I think if they are the type to go cold after sex.. they will go cold no matter ho long you make them wait. I don't think it is wise to sleep with them right away but some men don't mind playing the long game.

By saying, "he threw me every line under the sun to have his way that eventually I gave in," makes it sound as if he pressured you to have sex with him. If that were the case, it should have been a major red flag.

I'm not sure if you effectively communicated your expectations of wanting to take things slow, but if you did and he still pressured you to sleep with him, then that's not good. If a guy wants something long-term and legitamately likes you, he will respect your assertions especially when there are other ways to have fun in the bedroom without having sex. True, maybe after you did have sex, there was a lack of chemistry that he was able to realize.

However, don't view it as a loss. If you are having mediocre sex with a guy you really like, trust me, there is a guy you will really like out there that you will also have amazing, earth-shattering sexual chemistry with and chances are he will be just as into it as you are ;. Thanks, you are right there was a lot of pressure and looking back it was probably a very bad sign.

I really like your down-to-earth suggestions. However, I am in a weird problem. I like an older man, aged about He is extremely witty and intelligent but somehow not sure about if he can be happy in a marriage. Although, he's looking for a wife. I find him confusing at times. When asked if he's trying to play he says he doesnt play with just anyone without a reason and that he likes me. But when I mention marriage, he says I'm not giving him scope to know me.

As I mentioned earlier, he is practically very clever so I am sure he already knows what I am. All his friends are married and pushing him for marriage but why is he acting so insecure?

I'm tired of this. I'm 27 and I want marriage right now. How to make it happen without anymore unhealthy games? Help, dear. This is true, and the painful truth is that those people you meet while you are young and "innocent" have a much greater impact on you than later in life. There are two men who have had a major impact on me: the first I met when I was 18, the second at I was the one to call it off both times, but I was forced to do so as it didn't lead anywhere.

I haven't found anything similar since, and I find it more and more difficult to develop those butterflies, even with a guy who 'has it all'. There is a part of me who will always wonder if we'll meet again sometime later in life when we're both grown up and can make it work. I have moved on, but I can't shake them off. I suppose this is one disadvantage with the idea of women dating guys older than themselves.

He might be your first love, but you are probably not his, at least he does not have the same 'innocence'. So he can never really feel what you feel, not in the same way anyway.

I am terrified of never having those same feelings again. Nice blog! What about if the guy said he doesn't want serious relationship after dating you for a year? I should have asked him earlier. Lots of time have been wasted and I'm getting older.

Is he serious about? I am a twice divorced woman of abusive relationships, single now for about 15 years. I have a good job, support myself, own a house. So does he. I finally started dating again with the intent on finding someone I want to spend the rest of my life with and marriage. I am I have been dating a really great guy my age for over a year now.

Although he says all the right things and mostly does all the right things, I have no idea what are his ideas for our future together.

I am in love with this man, he says he loves me, is very affectionate, considerate and thoughtful. However, I know if he never intends to marry me, over time, I will become angry and resentful, and I don't want to end up feeling that way about him or myself. I don't want to be angry at myself for investing what little precious time I have left and angry at him for possibly wanting what I would end up seeing as a really great friendship with benefits.

Allison, you're getting as much as you're ever gonna get. Accept it like you would accept needing to get your hands dirty when you've got a flat tire on a boondocks rural road. At 58, you are not on the shelf of selections-for-marriage.

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Out of the blue my husband just sprung the divorce talk on me, I was totally depressed until I found Dr. Todd website online and i ordered for a Love spell. I was totally amazed! He is wonderful and his spells work so fast. His contact: manifestspellcast gmail. I WANT TO TESTIFY OF A GREAT SPELL CASTER CALLED DR LAMATU FOR HIS HELP OVER MY MARRIAGE.

I have been rejected by my husband after 14 years of marriage just because another woman and he left me and the kids to suffer. One day when i was reading through the web, i saw a post on how this spell caster Dr LAMATU a spell caster.

have helped a woman to get back her husband and i gave him a reply and he told me that a woman cast a spell on my husband and he told me that he will help me and after 3 days that i will have my husband back. I believed him because of his polite approach and sincerity and today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the power to bring lovers back because i am now happy with my husband and my kids.

Email him on drlamatu gmail. com for any family help. He is good in whatever he doing and trustworthy He has a permanent solution to any type of problems such as: Lottery Spell Love Spell Power Spell Success Spell Sickness Spell Pregnancy Spell Marriage Spell Job Spell Protection Spell Win court Case Spell Luck Spell etc. Hello, I am Demetria Rogers. After being in relationship with my husband for years, he broke up with me.

I did everything within my reach to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so badly because of the love I had for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to my friend and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back , I had no choice than to try it.

I messaged the spell caster, and he assured me there was no problem and that everything will be okay before three days. He cast the spell and surprisingly on the second day, my husband called me. I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that had happened He wanted me to return to him.

He also said he loved me so much. I was so happy and went to him that was how we started living together happily again. The spell casters email is : drjazazasolutions gmail. com You can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or any other Case. Doctor Jazaza could help you with the following: 1 Love Spells 2 Lost Love Spells 3 Divorce Spells 4 Marriage Spells 5 Binding Spell.

I want to share a great testimony on this website on how great Dr. oduma help me in falling pregnant,me and my husband have been trying to have a baby for over 6 years,but they where no luck so we decided to contact the family doctor and after all the test have been done,he said to us that one of my fallopian tube is not functioning. then one day i was in the office when a friend of mine who have the same problem with me, fall pregnant after she contacted Dr.

she directed me to him and when i contacted him through is email and he did the purification on the pregnancy spell and in 8weeks time i was feeling some how and i want to meet the family doctor who told me that i m pregnant. if you know that you have a similar problem like this and you want to be pregnant you can contact odumaspelltemple0 gmail. com Dr. ODUMA via Email: odumaspelltemple0 gmail. I highly recommends Lord Spiritual to anyone in need of help.

For the past 3months, I have been so depressed after losing my fiancé to another woman. I had a huge amount of debt and I didn't know what to do. Out of complete and total desperation, I contacted many of those so-called individuals who promised powerful magic, witchcraft or black magic. None of them worked and none were as wonderful, affectionate and warm as Lord Spiritual has been.

He is definitely different from the others and I felt immediate hope and strength from hearing about the promises he had to offer. He carries an air of purity and divine strength that is as pure as fresh snow on the ground. I requested Lord Spiritual most powerful spells and I was relieved right away that I had someone to solve my problems for me.

His spells worked wonders and I am now back with my fiance and my money troubles resolved itself after winning the lottery. ancientspelltemple12 gmail com I have no idea what I would have done without you being there to help me out.. spiritual yahoo com Read more on his blog; ancientspelltemple. com With best regards,. Hello friends, my name's Andrea Maria, from Stockholm - Sweden.

I read good comments about your good job, I'm very happy for you all as i have found same happiness in myself, just Few weeks ago i read a good testimony on similar blog website at my work office, a comment posted by a lady Jennifer from Madrid she said a Great man from Africana nation called Dr.

Oduduwa was able to bring back her ex boyfriend after 12 months of break-up. i was motivated, I gave it a try to contact same Oduduwa via: dr. oduduwaspellcaster gmail. com for urgent solution to restore back my marriage for about 2 years i have been separated.

Just immediately i send email message to Dr. Oduduwa, I received immediate reply, he told me that he can help me, he said my case is too simple for him to handle because he have solve similar cases over the years. I gave it a try because i have nothing to loose from trying.

he demanded for photo images and i bought candles and other spell materials required for a successful result. Two days ago which was Tuesday morning after love spell portion activated, i got a phone call from my ex husband man, he talked with me so nicely and apologize for breaking up with me, that it was the devils hand work and he was feeling very sorry, i forgive him and thank him for coming back.

it was shocking and a big surprise. i never could imagine it will work so quickly until yesterday morning my husband man came back home to meet me and our two lovely kids we are all happy as one family. Oduduwa has great magic spell powers to resolve the following Magic spell promoted in your Job office 9 Magic spell to have a baby.

women fruit of womb Note: I was desperate to get back my ex love man, it work more faster only desperate ones seeking for urgent result to restore back true love and peace in marriage relationship to contact Dr.

Oduduwa immediately. Am very happy to tell everyone to hear my testimony i am from united state, a nurse, this story of my love life. I have been married for 4years and on the 5th year of my marriage, another woman had to take my husband away from home, my husband left me and the kids to suffer for 2years until i met a post where this man Dr. Udebhulu have helped someone and i decided to give him a try to help me bring my husband back home and believe me i only sent my picture to him and that of my husband and after 48hours as he have told me, i saw a car drove into the house and behold it was my husband and he have come to me and the kids and that is why i am happy to make every one of you in similar problems to meet with this powerful man and have your lover back to your self.

You can contact him with this email address {shomorikasolutiontemple yahoo. com or shomorikasolutiontemple hotmail. com} Thank you Dr Udebhulu.

I am sure he will do same to help you. The spell worked like magic with the way and manner my husband change and started showing love instead of the divorce he was planning. i just too happy that everything is in place for me now.

I would gladly recommend the use of spell to any one going through marriage problems and want to put an end to it. com , gbojiespiritualtemple yahoo.

I WANT TO SAY A VERY BIG THANKS TO DR. TONY FOR RESTORING HAPPINESS INTO MY LIFE AND FAMILY. This is my testimony about the good work of a man who helped me, My life is back after 5 years of marriage because my husband left me and our children. I felt like my life was over and falling apart because i was devastated, Thanks to a spell caster called Dr. TONY who i met online. On one faithful day, as I was going through the internet, I came across series of testimonies about this particular spell caster, some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on.

There was one particular testimony I saw, it was about a woman called Newton Joy, she testified about how Dr. TONY brought back her Ex lover in less than 3 days and at the end of her testimony she drop his contact and E-mail address. After reading all these, I decided to give Dr. TONY a try. I contacted him via email drtonylovespellcaster gmail. com and explained my problem to him. In just 2 days my husband came back to me. We solved our issues and we are even happier than before.

TONY, Here is his contact: E-mail Address: drtonylovespellcaster gmail. I want to use this medium to thank Dr. TONY a very powerful spell caster who helped me to bring my husband back to me, few months ago i have a serious problem with my husband, to the extend that he left the house, and he started dating another woman and he stays with the woman, i tried all i can to bring him back, but all my effort was useless until the day my friend came to my house and I told her everything that had happened between my husband and I, then she told me of a powerful spell caster who help her when she was in the same problem and his name is Dr.

TONY, I give a try and contacted the Great Doctor and I told him every thing and he told me not to worry myself again that my husband will come back to me after he has cast a spell on him, I thought it was a joke, after he had finish casting the spell, he told me that he had just finish casting the spell, to my greatest surprise within that 3 days, my husband really came back and started begging me to forgive him, if you need his help you can contact him with his email address drtonylovespellcaster gmail.

I have been in relationship with my boyfriend for 2 year now and we were planning to get married soon and all of a sudden he left me for another girl, i really love this guy and never can imagine my life without him.

I further tried all my best to get him back but all my effort to get him back in my life did not work out. It was on this faithful day, i came across some comments on a website about this great spell caster called Chief Dr Lucky, so many persons claimed that he help them to renew their relationship and bring their ex back, i had to contact him because he was my last hope.

I contacted him through his email and he assured me that in two days time my boyfriend is going to leave the other girl and come back to me and it was a very great surprise to see my boyfriend coming back to me after two days. I am so very happy today that he came back to me and i achieved this with the help of Chief Dr Lucky, and i advice if you need his help too Email: Chiefdrlucky gmail. I felt like my life was over and falling apart, because i was devastated, Thanks to a spell caster called Dr.

TONY who i meet online. On one faithful day, as I was going through the internet, I came across series of testimonies about this particular spell caster, some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back to then, some testified that he restores womb, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. TONY brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days and at the end of her testimony she drop his contact and E-mail address.

In just 2 days my husband came back to me with his on the ground seeking for forgiveness. HOW I GOT MY EX HUSBAND BACK WITH THE HELP OF REAL AND EFFECTIVE SPELL FROM DR Osasu My name is Hanna Rosin, I never thought I will smile again, My husband left me with two kids for one year, All effort to bring him back failed I thought I'm not going to see him again not until I met a lady called Jesse who told me about a spell caster called Dr.

Osasu , She gave me his email address and mobile number and I contacted him and he assured me that within 48hours my husband will come back to me, In less than 48hours my husband came back started begging for forgiveness saying it is the devils work, so I'm still surprise till now about this miracle,i couldn't conceive but as soon as the spell was cast,i became pregnant and gave birth to my third child,if you need any assistance from him you can contact him via:email: drosasu25 gmail.

I am Hanna by name. it is an honour and my delightful moment to testify about a great man who cure my wife herpes simplex virus which she had been suffering from since 6 years,i have tried all the possible means to cure my wife from the infection,moving from one hospital to another but all the effort was not successful,we almost spent all our money still no hope,i was very confused and frustrated and at a point of giving up until a friend of recommend me to a great herbal doctor who also cure his wife hepatitis b virus, his name his dr oriane ,i contact him and he advice me and recommend his medication to me which i bought and my wife started using the medication and within 21 days the fibroid was gone,my wife was able to be pregnant and today we are happy and we forever thanking dr oriane for his signs and wonder he has done in our life..

you can contact him via his email at droriane6 gmail. Hello everybody my name is Veronica Long from UK i want to give thanks to the a very great man called Dr Ilekhojie for bringing my back my joy which i was lacking for 3 years after the divorce of me and my wife and leaving me with 2 kids which have been a very difficult for me.

I never knew what came over me that made me request for divorce and since that day i have been lacking happiness. I have done all i could to get her back to be mine again but with no success, until i came across how this great Man called Dr Ilekhojie restored someones marriage which i did not waste any time but to contact him and gave him a try. Could you imaging that Dr Ilekhojie did a miraculous thing by making my Wife to call me that same day to check on me and my kids.

I was so surprised and in non less than 48 hours my wife came to me and to see the kids. Since that day we have been working things out happily and she is finally back to me as my wife again. I dont know how to appreciate this great man called Dr Ilekhojie for restoring my joy.

Please everybody out there i will be glad you also help me Thank you! Ilekhojies contact gethelp05 gmail. edeshome gmail. HERPES 3. CANCER 4. ALS 5. Hepatitis 6 Diabetes 7 LOVE SPELL 8 IF YOU NEED YOUR EX LOVER BACK TO LOVE YOU AGAIN. Kwale spell brought my ex back to my arms within the period of 24 hours and the joy in my heart right now makes me want to tell the whole world about the great love spell caster Dr.

com get in contact with him and he will reunite your broken relationship just like mine, thanks I was able to get my ex back with the love spell Kwale Temple did for me. I came across Kwale Temple through a lady that I also heard her testimony how she got her man back through Dr Kwale love binding spell, so I used the same medium and after the spell my ex came back to me after 48 hours.

In case you need help now do contact Kwale Temple on via his email address kwaletemple gmail. I was married for 5years, things started getting ugly and we had fights and arguments almost every time it got worse at a point that he filed for divorce he moved out of the house and still went ahead to file for divorce I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked.

The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster who eventually helped me out I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly cause I was desperate and left with no choice He did special prayers Within 3days he called me and was sorry for all the emotional trauma he had cost me, he moved back to the house and we continue to live happily.

what a wonderful miracle Dr anthony mello did for me and my family. I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news com , Thanks. heal from broken heart" I'm so excited my husband is back after he left me for another woman"contact Unityspelltemple gmail. Every day and night i think of him and always wish he could come back to me, I was really worried and i needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that Dr Unity can help get ex back fast.

Then from that day,our Marriage was now stronger than how it were before, All thanks to Dr Unity. Unity is real spell caster who i will always pray to live long to help his children in the time of trouble, if you are here and you need your ex lover back or save your marriage fast. Do not cry anymore, contact this powerful spell caster Dr.

Unity now. com ,your kindness will never be forgotten. Natasha Wanderly form USA. I am sharing this testimony to partners suffering in their relationships because there is an enduring solution.

My husband left me and our 2 kids for another woman for 3 years. I tried to be strong just for my kids but I could not control the pains that torment my heart. I was hurt and confused. I needed a help, so i did a research on the internet and came across a site where I saw that Dr. Todd a spellcaster, can help get lovers back. I contacted him and he did a special prayer and spells for me. To my surprises, after some days, my husband came back home. That was how we reunited again and there was a lot of love, joy and peace in the family.

You can as well contact Dr. Todd, a powerful spell-caster for solutions on his contact manifestspellcast gmail.

My husband and I have been married for about 7 yrs now. We were happily married with two kids, a boy and a girl. He started coming home late from work, he hardly care about me or the kids anymore, Sometimes he goes out and doesn't even come back home for about days.

I did all I could to rectify this problem but all to no avail. As I was browsing through the Internet one day, I came across a website that suggested that Dr Great can help solve marital problems, restore broken relationships and so on. Two days later, my husband came to me and apologized for the wrongs he did and promise never to do it again.

All thanks to Dr Great. This is his E-mail: infinitylovespell gmail. HOW Dr,UzoyaTHE GREAT SPELL CASTER HELP BRING MY EX LOVER. My names are Jamison Patel from United States. Great Dr Uzoya is really powerful and knows how to do his job perfectly. If not for him i could not imagine what would have happened.

My ex was always picking up an argument with me and was always beating me. He started acting strange and funny and left me for no cause for another girl. I thought all hope was gone. I searched for help on the internet and i came across Dr Uzoya.

I saw so many testimonies about him. I was delighted and i contacted him on his email and told him what was going on. He laughed and assured me to calm down that he will help me and that my ex will come back begging me. He did his work and cast the spell for me and in 3 days time, my ex came apologizing just as he told me. Today we both live together and we are even more in love than how we use to be before he left. Contact the Dr Uzoya for your own help. You can contact him on his email; driraborspellcaster gmail.

Is my gratitude and honor to say a big thanks to a man with truth and do as he promise please every one on this site should join me and thank Dr UZOYA for the glory and happiness he gave to me, i break up with my husband 2 months back and i was down and do not know what to do until i saw a post about this spell caster Dr UZOYA who i explain my situation to, and then he said to me cry not my daughter for what you seek for is right here in my temple he gave me hope when i have no hope to my greatest notice, he did the spell for me and my husband was back 3 days after the spell please if you need any help my advise for you all is go to Dr UZOYA cause he is the best of all, contact him via driraborspellcaster gmail.

I visited here online on the 17 June and i saw a marvelous testimony of Tracie Adana from United States on the forum about the good works DR. tunde did a marvelous work for me that restored my marriage of 4 years by getting back my husband back i just as i read on the internet.

I'm Carolina peter I was truly shocked when my husband knelt down pleading for forgiveness to accept him back. tunde For his a God sent to me and my entire family for divine restoration of my marriage. Hello friends after reading this you will agree with me this's very good to share out here in comment, I believe its will inspire others too as i have found happiness and joy in my marriage today, I'm a living witness it work for me, my husband return back home after 2 years of divorce, its almost unbelievable but miraculous.

My name's Anders Maria, origin from Buenos Aires - Argentina, i'm a Medical Doctor by Profession. Few weeks ago I read similar comments on a relationship counseling Blogg post about a USA lady called Theresa, she testified how she restored back true love and trust into her broken marriage, she said Dr. Oduduwa that helped her reconcile with husband after several months of separation.

I was so lucky to read that coment and i copied out Dr. Oduduwa personal email contact address to communicate with him personal for help urgent help to bring back my ex husband home {dr. com} Last week Monday morning i send email message to communicate with same Dr. Oduduwa for help. Two months ago i had huge fight with my husband Anders he looked straight into to my eyes; said our marriage is over, he said that he was done with our marriage, he took away my son Felix and travel our of the country to be living in Canada with another woman, ever since then I have been trying to call and send messages to him through phones, social median and email but he completely blocked my line out from reaching him and our son Felix was with him and i could not hear my sons voice, this pain i have been going through all my life until the day i met Great Dr.

Oduduwa Love spell caster, i was so frustrated and needed help to at least get to talk with our son Felix, i was read to apologize even when we both know he wronged me, he took my son away from me for over 7 months no words no letter. this situation was killing me everyday i was depressed and i desperately needed urgent help and solution to resolve this problem so i contact email address of Dr.

Oduduwa as i believe he can be only hope to help me bring back my husband home with my son Felix. However, Dr. Oduduwa assured me that he can help me return back my husband and kid back home within 7 days of love spelling prayers, I was shocked and i gave it a try, i carefully follow his instructions step to step.

Two days after Dr. oduduwa said he done finished enchantment Love-spelling powers into air at the Temple of Solution, all these was done by him all alone, i did not do anything just provide required items. That same night my husband Anders called me on cell phone to apologize, he was very sobber talked with me nice, he was feeling very sorry for everything he did to hurt me.

Anders return back home with our Felix. I am so happy today that i have my family restored and my husband and i love each other more than everafter. I will forever appreciate and grateful to Oduduwa.

I promise to share my good news testimony to my friends and everyone out here in the world. You are very lucky to reading my good new testimony out here today, it work for me. I believe it will work for you as well. heal from broken heart" Love spell from dr. Unity brought my husband back" I'm so excited my husband is back after he left me for another woman" After 12years of marriage, me and my husband has been into one quarrel or the other until he finally left me and moved to California to be with another woman.

Do not cry anymore, contact Dr. My name is rose living in USA, My husband left me for a good 3 years now, and i love him so much, i have been looking for a way to get him back since then.

love a spell caster, who helped me to bring back my husband after 2 weeks. Me and my husband are living happily together today, That man is great, you can contact him via email drlovetemple gmail.

com Now i will advice any serious persons that found themselves in this kind of problem to contact him now a fast solution without stress.. contact him now he is always online email drlovetemple gmail. Am so excited that my ex husband is back into my life after we had a serious argument which led to him leaving me, my life was a mess without him because he was my source of happiness i tried calling him but he didn't answer my call but everything came to an end after i contacted this genuine and powerful spell caster called DR GREAT who cast a love spell on my ex husband to make him realize how much he loves me and that we are meant to be together forever, since then we have never had a quarrel again and our love for each other has continue to grow each day.

contact him now for urgent love spell at infinitylovespell gmail. My heart was broken i never believe i will get back my ex again until Dr LOVE brought back my ex within 24 hours with a powerful love spell.

He is reliable for positive result contact the spell caster for love spell on email: { takutaspellalter g m ail. A GREAT SPELL CASTER DR. TAKUTA THAT HELP ME GET MY EX HUSBAND BACK, AM SO HAPPY My name is LUCY SETHI from USA. I am here to give testimony on how I got my husband back.

My husband left me for no reason 3 years ago. He moved in with another woman, I felt like killing myself, my life became very bitter and sorrowful. Then 1 day, a friend of mine told me about a great spell caster that is very good and, he said he gave him some lucky numbers that he played in a lottery and he won. I didn't believe it because I've worked with so many of them and it didn't work.

He begged me further so I decided to try this great spell caster called DR TAKUTA. I still didn't believe. I used the spell he gave me and the next day I received a call from my darling husband Thomas last month. He apologized and came back to me. He even gave me 10,USD as a means of compensating me. Remember this as you age. And for those of you already well past your prime, recognize that it is never too late to reverse your thinking.

You can still be sexy; you just need to make an effort and shed these puritanical American ideas. True, you'll be fighting your culture in doing so, and you'll have to learn to come to terms with looks of disapproval from the women who decided that it was acceptable to wear sneakers to the grocery store. But if your personal style is rooted in a firm belief about the kind of woman you want to be, you'll see those criticisms for what they are: comments from women motivated primarily by jealousy and the will to believe they don't have to work.

This might be true, but it misses the point. The error lies not in American women's efforts to be good mothers, but in their belief that this somehow precludes being sexy. There is no reason why women can't do both, as evidenced by European women, who are also great mothers. In fact, this is a topic for another post, but I would argue that you actually can't be a great mother without continuing to think of yourself as a sexual being.

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Tuesday, September 1, The Problem with Denim and Leather. Several years ago, I got into a discussion about women's clothes with my girlfriend at the time and her friend. The friend mentioned that she had "kind of started to hate polo shirts on girls. She replied that they were "just too masculine.

I'd never even noticed polo shirts as being particularly attractive or unattractive, let alone masculine or feminine; but I could see where she was coming from. After all, some clothes dresses for example are more feminine, so it made sense that other types could be more masculine. From that point on, I started paying more attention to how sex-appropriate various types of clothes seemed. Years later I started reading a website called Masculine Style , which does a great job of teaching men how to dress well.

The author explains that the history and evolution of certain clothes is what makes them have the visual effect that they do, making them work or not for different men in different situations. Labels: appearance , clothes , fashion , femininity , how men think , masculinity , misconceptions , sexy , style , what men want. Tuesday, August 25, Amy Young. I haven't come across many online dating advice resources for women that I consider valuable.

You might have noticed that until today I didn't follow anyone on Twitter , and you probably notice that I don't have links to other websites anywhere on here. This is because most other dating advice resources for women basically suck.

They either give advice that feeds people's need to feel like there are easy solutions, don't say anything insightful, or their authors are clearly more interested in their personal success than putting out quality content. I don't want to undermine my readers' trust for my content by recommending them. Her name is Amy Young and she has a YouTube channel and a blog.

I haven't watched all of her videos or read all of her articles, but I've seen more than enough to recognize three things that set her apart: She's smart. Why this matters is kind of self-explanatory, but I am going to spell it out anyway: it means that she gets down the crux of your issues with men and dating, and she explains them clearly.

And to anticipate the comments: yes, in spite of what you may have inserted between the lines of my posts on the topic , intelligence in women is attractive. She's genuine. She isn't dishing out advice from the "I do everything right and that's why you should listen to me" perspective like many supposed dating gurus. It comes much more from a place of "Yeah, I fucked this up too, but I see now where I went wrong; don't make the same mistake I did. She's not a complainer.

This is by far what sold me the most. People who don't complain are rare. Very, very, rare. And this is all the more true when it comes to talking about the behavior of the opposite sex. That absence is a hallmark of someone with strong boundaries , and it demonstrates the kind of mindset you need to attract a quality guy. This is the kind of girl you want to be taking advice from. Yeah, OK, she starts her videos by saying shit in an weird voice , and she puts gay music in the background of her videos.

But you're girls so you probably like that stuff anyway. How to Reveal A Guy's True Intentions. Here is one that most girls need to hear:. What if All the "Good Guys" are Taken? And in the vein of my last post again, so true :. Posted by Andrew at AM comments: Email This BlogThis! Labels: authenticity , how women think , self-improvement , vulnerability , what men want. Every once in a while I get e-mails from girls who have clearly resigned themselves to a life of lovelessness because they think they are ugly.

This post is for them. I used to feel sorry for ugly girls. Female good looks were overwhelming to me at the time, so the girls without them mustn't have been able to get guys — or so my year-old logic went, anyway.

This reasoning sustained some damage when I finally went out with some hot girls.

As a woman who was a virgin until february this year I'm 23 yrs old , I confess I was waiting for this post for a while you were always saying "working on it" on previous topics. So, long story short, I had a boyfriend for 5 yrs and we were both waiting until marriage no religious reasons whatsoever, we just felt like that , but then at some point I started to want to have sex and he called me a slut for that. We broke up two years ago, both virgins.

I dated other guys for a short time, but then I moved to another country, got a job, grew up, and after a while I met this man with whom I lost it. We were dating for 4 months and he knew I was a virgin, and he seemed really nice met his father, went out as a couple with his friends and so.

Although we were exclusive, we've always said we were not in a serious relationship, mostly because I am leaving the country the next semester and he said it would be bad to put a lot of emotions on this, and I agreed.

Either way, all that stuff made me want to lose it, and so I did. It hurt like hell, worst pain of my life, and we didn't go all the way or had sex for real because he said he felt like raping me since I couldn't handle it. He told me to go home and "fuck myself" literally, before trying again.

I thought we would continue together after that, to enjoy the time I am still around, but no. Can't say I feel ok with that, because perhaps next time I'll date someone I will still want to slow things down, maybe now even more.

But it happened and sucked. Anyway, thanks for the article, although I don't have my virginity anymore. If it had been published in january, I think the outcome would still have been the same. Oof well I'm sorry that it hurt, you should actually fuck yourself with a dildo.

Omg I Finally Got Helped!! I'm so excited right now, I just have to share my testimony on this Forum.. The feeling of being loved takes away so much burden from our shoulders. I had all this but I made a big mistake when I cheated on my wife with another woman and my wife left me for over 4 months after she found out..

I was lonely, sad and devastated. Luckily I was directed to a very powerful spell caster Dr Emu who helped me cast a spell of reconciliation on our Relationship and he brought back my wife and now she loves me far more than ever.. I'm so happy with life now.

Thank you so much Dr Emu, kindly Contact Dr Emu Today and get any kind of help you want.. Via Email emutemple gmail. I read somewhere that women shouldn't disclose their sexual status to a man. This is especially true for virgins since some men might pursue further for bragging rights only.

The author a man says that if a man expresses the need to ask a woman about her virginity, then he is after sex not her. What do you think of this? I can post the website if you're interested.

It's wwnh. Just click on the CONTENT section on the top of the page and click on the VIRTUAL VIRGINITY series. The website has some excellent information on other issues as well. I suggest other women to check it out! I agree with this.. the less said the better -early on.. I think eventually it may need to be disclosed as they might figure it out. But what if a guy specifically asks casually "I assume you've had sex before.. If a guy asks you that question, you could ask him something like, "Why would you say that?

He would probably be at a lost for words. Then you could say, "It's still possible to be a virgin today despite the cultural norm. And if he asks if you are a virgin you could change the subject or say that you don't feel comfortable disclosing such information to someone you barely know.

If he respects you, he will comply. Men like to figure things out so by you answering that way, it will most likely keep him questioning his assumption you've had sex without you actually saying it. Hope that makes sense :. As far as marriage goes, I think men still value virginity. If they had to choose between marrying an emotionally secure, loving, wise, and kind virgin or an emotionally secure, loving, wise, and kind non-virgin, and they were both beautiful, most would choose the virgin over the non-virgin.

Virginity is still valued by men who are looking for commitment, but it is not as common so therefore not expected. If she is a virgin because she is spiritual, highly selective, or sees sex as an expression of full love to her partner and wants to give herself to her significant other as a gift and token of love, then that is a very desirable quality.

She is a virgin for good reason, for reasons that make her that much more attractive in the eyes of men. Like you said, the reasons are everything. So if you're a virgin, before you go out and have casual sex with a random man, figure out the true reasons why you're still a virgin, then decided if you still want to wait.

It will take a lot of introspection and honesty but at least you can figure out what you really want and why. Andrew-can you do a post on unattractive women being threatened by women who are more beautiful than they are? It's funny yet sad to see how jealous women behave when threatened by others, and I think there's a lesson or two us readers might benefit from. The comment from the reader above, about a man choosing between two equally beautiful women, one being a virgin and one not made me think of it.

I think it's difficult for unattractive women who are insecure and pretend to be confident to manage their emotions at times, especially when they are clearly less attractive.

In other words, how should a 2 accept they are a 2 and can never be an 8? can they? That's a crass way of putting it, but that's effectively what I'm trying to ask lol Not sure if you've come across any interesting tidbits you can share. Nice post btw. Thank you Andrew for this post. I am an atheist, not religious, 22 year-old girl and a self-imposed virgin.

I have never wanted to sleep around with guys, not only I find it morally corrupt but I have more security in myself and I dont feel that I need a man's approval to feel comfortable in my skin, plus I usually set very high standards in terms of the people I let very close to myself.

And although I would have had lot of chances already like one night stands whenever I go out with friends , I rejected a hell lot of guys, both those who just wanted to sleep with me and also guys who wanted to date me I didn't like them enough. I think I am still a virgin because I try to live up to very high standards in dating while I am an introvert and not very sociable person and tend to be shy in social situations which puts off the kind of guys I would like.

It is also probably because I reject to live up to today's extreme beauty standards I don't wear any makeup, I never look slutty, I like to be the girl-next-door type and I constantly reject guys or just avoid them, because I know they are not a good fit. Although, I have never hidden my virginity from guys who I was really interested in and tried to sleep with me, because I know why I am virgin, and I dont have any regrets.

I just feel that I havent found the right person yet, and although it is getting very hard!! to control hormones I really do want to have sex , I dont want to lose it with just someone random, in a hit-and-run case, and I feel disgusted by the thought of having sex with someone I am not attracted to which for me includes feelings! So, as reading through your article, I realized that it is not relevant to my case, but thanks anyways, as it caught my attention instantly.

I'm a virgin agnostic-atheist male waiting till marriage. Non-religious virgins are so rare that it's troubling to realize that so many of the people who pride themselves on the use of reason to find their answers in life seem to behave so unreasonably when it comes to such an important aspect of their lives.

Glad to know that there are a couple of others out there who think like me. Thank you for posting this. I think you've given a lot of very good advice here. I'm a year-old virgin who has been unlucky in love, and you really hit home with your point about frustrations over inability to meet our own criteria causing us to blame our virginity or throw it away.

That bitterness and the temptation to just jump into bed with someone has been especially prominent for me this past year, yet I never looked at those feelings in the way that you just explained them. That was rather eye-opening.

I do want to add something to your advice about when to tell the guy you're dating you're a virgin. In my experience, the men who were already emotionally attached to me took the news much better than guys I had only started dating. I've always felt confident about my decision to stay a virgin until I'm in a serious relationship, and I convey this to the men I date, but if I tell them too soon - even if it comes up naturally in conversation or as we're getting increasingly physically intimate - they say they respect my decision as you described but they largely disappear after that.

You described this phenomenon in your earlier post about virginity, and I think you're right that guys who disappear aren't looking for anything serious anyway. However, I wonder if I had waited longer to tell them, then they may have stuck around long enough to actually start to like me - and then perhaps wouldn't have disappeared once they learned of my virginity.

I could be entirely wrong about this but the strategy I'm going to employ with the next guy I date is to keep my virginity a secret until we've been seeing each other for at least a month.

If he starts pushing for sex before then, I'm just going to say, "Not yet. The guys I meet start pushing for sex after 3 dates. Give me his number? Also, I just started a blog devoted to this very subject. I'll link it in case it interests you or your readers.

Hey Andrew, and other lovely readers, my question is related to not initiating contact - I went on a lovely first date. Guy said we should meet up again but we can't for a few weeks as I'm back in my uni town now. He texted me to let him know when I'm back. He hasn't texted for a couple days, so should I initiate a text to see how he's doing and keep communication between us going?

Daphne-I don't see anything wrong with sending him a text saying hi and maybe ask him how he's doing or something like that. Don't expect an immediate reply, and maybe put some thought into your text so you don't end up sending follow up texts to clarify what you said.

People might have other views :. Thanks Emily L! I did send a text in the end, so we made plans for next weekend :.

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